Many of us are new to this level of crisis. The sudden presence of coronavirus has given all of us some sense of life being disrupted, feeling off-kilter, and generally inconvenienced. Our usual schedule is altered or gone as are many of the systems that we previously relied on to get us through each day.
Grocery shopping is different. Work is different. Routines are different. Even school is different. Sometimes we lose track of the time of day or the day altogether. How many times since this crisis began have you asked yourself, “Is it Tuesday or Wednesday or Friday?”
We feel a loss of control over our lives. The future is uncertain. We are at the mercy of the situation. Some of us have lost work or wages which means we are sometimes making hard choices between food and bills. Most of us are unable to see loved ones. For many of us, these changes are accompanied by a lost sense of purpose. The best we can do is hold on to hope, pray for grace, and have faith that it will all work out somehow.
The thing that is so striking to all of us at Family Promise is that although this level of crisis is new to many of us, this is very similar to the kind of crisis that we have seen most (if not all) of our families go through since we opened our doors in 2013.
This insight into what our families are experiencing when they enter the Family Promise program has already proven to be valuable. It takes trust that the program will work for them, just like we must have faith that we will be able to recoup the funding we've lost from having to cancel two fundraisers. Already our empathy for our families is growing.
During this pandemic we are told to be gentle with ourselves, and to give ourselves a break because it is going to be hard for a while. That messaging is accurate - we should be gentle with ourselves and it is going to be hard for a while. For most of us, though, this crisis will pass. We will return to our jobs and our wages will be restored.
When it does pass for us and life goes back to “normal,” it is so very important that we remember what this feels like. There will still be people in crisis even when our lives get back to what they were before we ever heard of COVID-19.
If we can all remember how it felt and if that memory can lead to a little more compassion, then at least one positive thing will have come from this.
Adjusting to the Crisis
At Family Promise, we have adjusted like everyone. We are still doing case management and individualized attention using distance/video/conferencing, etc. Our volunteers and donors are still very involved in making sure the families have what they need during this time.
Our graduate families are going through the same thing as everyone else. They are homeschooling the kids and they are hoping to hang on to their jobs. They are a little uneasy, uncertain, and very glad they have Family Promise as a safety net. We are keeping them informed about local resources and encouraging their continued contact with us.
One of the biggest impacts we’ve personally seen from this crisis is that we have had to cancel our two largest fundraisers of the year. We have pivoted, responded, and replaced them with two virtual events.
Opportunities For You to Help
No-Show Gala, April 18-25
Most Galas require you to get all dolled up and show up. But not this one! The No-Show Gala is designed for you to eat a fabulous meal in the comfort of your own home (sequins are optional). Each ticket will get you a gourmet dinner courtesy of Sylver Spoon delivered right to your door. All funds raised will go toward emergency funding for our homeless families.
Meal deliveries will go on through the week, but the live Gala event itself will be on Saturday, April 18 at 7 PM. Sarah Dixon, our Executive Director, will open with an address and then Jessica Melott will be hosting a live jewelry show featuring fair trade accessories around 7:30 PM. 20% of the profits from the jewelry sales will go to support Family Promise and the rest will go to vulnerable artisan communities.
Big Give Emergency Relief Fund, Ongoing
To donate to our Big Give Emergency Relief Fund, please visit the Family Promise website and click on the red button at the top of the screen.
As of writing this, we have met our first $4K matching goal (total is now $19K) so now the updated goal is $25K by 4/25. Exciting! We still have a long way to go to reach our next goal, so please consider making a donation. Every bit counts.
For every $5 you donate to the Big Give Emergency Relief Fund, you will have a chance to win a raffle prize and for $20 increments you will get 5 chances to win. The winners will be announced on May 6th. Stay tuned for more information on how to claim your prizes.
Family Promise is a Community Response to Homelessness and we will need the help of the community working together to pull through in the coming months. We are grateful for your support.